How do you feel about same race couples using science to help them give birth to bi-racial babies?

Tue, Jan 28 2014 11:43am EST 1
Yasmin S
Yasmin S
153 Posts
I'm speechless:-(
This is by far the wrong reason to bring babies into the world and I'm a mother with bi-racial children, I think this is awful and will be damaging to the child.

At least when one parent is white and the other black you can explain why the child is either darker or lighter, but when you have two parents that are dark or light and it is known that the child is not adopted, what do you say? how do you explain? all you're telling your child is that we (his or her parents) are not good enough and beneath you. Aughhhhhhhh.

This is too crazy..... I just don't know:-(
Tue, Jan 28 2014 12:10pm EST 2
Yasmin S
Yasmin S
153 Posts

As Parents you want to set a positive example and be proud to have your children look up to you, not down on you.

So Sad:-(

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